Comfa Clarity Cards

Declarative Language Support for Real Family Life
Have you ever found yourself in the middle of a difficult moment and completely forgotten every declarative language phrase you’ve ever learned?
You’re not alone.

When we’re overwhelmed, tired, stressed, rushing out of the door or supporting a dysregulated child, our minds often go blank. That’s exactly why we created the Comfa Clarity Cards.

Designed for parents and caregivers of autistic, ADHD and PDA children, these printable cards provide real-life declarative language examples for the situations many families face every day.

Instead of commands, pressure and repeated instructions, the cards focus on sharing information, modelling actions and reducing demands in a way that feels natural and supportive.

Inside you’ll find practical examples for:
* Leaving the house
• Getting in the car
• Getting dressed
• Teeth brushing
• Bedtime
• Mealtimes
• Screens
• Homework
• Sibling conflict
• Hitting and throwing
• Shopping trips
• Waiting rooms
• School refusal
• Transitions
• Public overwhelm
• Public meltdowns
• Emotional overwhelm
• Bath time
• Taking medicine

Each card includes:
✔️ Common phrases many of us say when we’re stressed
✔️ Declarative alternatives you can use instead
✔️ A simple reminder to help reduce pressure and stay connected

The cards are written in plain, everyday language and are designed to sound like a real parent talking, not a parenting course.
Print them at home, keep them on your phone, pop them in your handbag or save them for the moments when your mind goes blank.
Because you don’t need perfect words

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You just need somewhere to start.
Digital Download Includes:
* Full Comfa Clarity Cards PDF
• Emergency “What Can I Say Instead?” Cheat Sheet
• Instant Download
For personal use only.